Marriage-Related Stuff (A Compilation)

I pulled the following articles from various places on the Web. I was just sitting around wondering what had happened to Jaci Velasquez. I knew she had married, but alot of it was kept private. Here is what I found, though:

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Pics from www.Raypublishing.org:


 


 

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From a www.Christianitytoday.com interview with Jaci:
Last year you did score one Number 1 hit, and that's your husband. What was it about him that stole your heart?

Velasquez: Well, he didn't really know who I was—at least he didn't really care. In fact, he thought it was kinda goofy that I was an adult contemporary pop singer. Personally, I fell in love with his blue eyes. I was always a sucker for light eyes. If you look back at the pictures of all my boyfriends, they all have blue eyes. But Darren was funny, he knew how to make me laugh. He just was everything. There aren't really words to describe Darren. He's just the greatest, the funniest, and the coolest guy you'll ever meet.

What makes him a great husband?

Velasquez: He doesn't take things seriously. He takes the right things seriously, but he won't take the wrong things seriously. For example, when I'm being a dork and freaking out about dumb girl stuff, he'll say, "Jaci, you're crazy. You'll be fine." He takes my emotions seriously, but not the silly things I'm taking seriously. He makes light of the situation, which is what I need in my life. Does that make sense?

Yes, but tell me more.

Velasquez: He's just the kind of guy that would be the perfect guy for any girl.

Doesn't that make you a little uneasy?

Velasquez: No, because I got him, because he's so in love with me that I'm not worried. There isn't a single cheating bone in his body. Once he's yours, he's yours. That's why every girl would want him. Any girl wants a guy that will be hers forever, and that's how I feel with him.

You said he's funny. Give me an example.

Velasquez: He dances for me in the living room.

Is he any good?

Velasquez: Not at all (laughs)!

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From www.Jacivelasquez.org:

Darren Potuck's Post To The Fans (August 30, 2003)
Today, Darren Potuck (Jaci's husband) made a post on Jaci Online's message board. Here is what he had to say:
Hello everyone, I just wanted to take some time and introduce myself to all of you. My name is Darren and yes...Jaci and I are married. I understand you don't know me so I thought I'd fill you in. Here's the deal: I grew up in northern Indiana where I went to Goshen High School. I spent most of my time in high school playing soccer, both on the school team and with traveling teams. When the college years came I decided on Anderson University which is in the middle of Indiana. I graduated college with a degree in Christian ministries which I probably won't ever use considering I'm a full-time musician. I continued playing soccer at Anderson until I joined a band. The band (fishersNet) started taking lots of time and we began playing many shows. I was missing soccer practice and games so I had to make a decision. Since I knew I'd never make it playing professional soccer I opted to stay with the band. 6 years have gone by now...we've changed the name of the band to a.m.DRIVE (amdrive.net) and are currently talking with many general market labels (Interscope, Virgin, Dreamworks, Elektra etc...) Yes, I am a Christian! Christ is the most important figure in my life. It would take far too long for me to go into my personal philosophy, so please just know that our marriage is and will always be a Christ-centered marriage.
Jaci and I started dating a year ago after a mutual friend set us up. We immeadiately began falling in love, it's hard not to do when you find your soulmate you know? We dated for 8 months then planned a wedding in 3. Sure, some people may think that's moving a little fast. But I'm telling you, when you find the person you want to share your life with, how long you've dated isn't an issue. We were married on Aug. 16th in Franklin, TN...went to Paris for the honeymoon...split up for a few days to play shows in different parts of the country...then met up in Miami to fly to Peru for a missions trip to visit our sponsored child with Compassion International.
It's been a bit crazy the last few weeks but well worth it when you're with the one God has placed in your life. I understand that Jaci means a lot to all of you. She is a wonderful woman that God has used to change many people's hearts, open many people's eyes and calm many people's souls. It is this and many other attributes that made me fall in love with Jaci. So, my reason for writing this is simple. Not only do I want to introduce myself into your world, I want you all to know that I will take care of your little girl. You have my word! Please keep us in your prayers...every marriage is a difficult one at times. Thanks for your time and God bless, Darren

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Details at www.Wikipedia.com:

On August 16, 2003, Velasquez married Darren Potuck, band member of AutoVaughn, who is from Goshen, Indiana. They were married just under two years when divorce papers were filed and granted, under rumors that there was infidelity.

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Feedback from readers at www.Christianitytoday.com:

Jaci V's Divorce
Editor's note: We received a number of e-mails in response to our news article about Jaci Velasquez's recent divorce.

posted 08/29/05
I think many young Christians are some of the most inadequately prepared people for marriage, and this is especially true of young artists in the spotlight. In general, marriage expectations are unrealistic. I have been married 31 years to a minister, and I still feel this pressure. I am not saying there are no good materials or no good instruction out there; and I am the last person to deny personal responsibility and accountability for decisions and conduct. But I firmly believe that the Christian church and Christian media dropped the ball a long time ago. And I think many Christians are some of the most unrealistic and unthinking people around. I am not angry; I have just been around a long time.
Elizabeth Ball

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Sadly, I think I agree with Elizabeth. Scary? Surprised? Questions, comments. Let me know what you think.